It’s been a long time since primary school, but I still seem to allow myself to be bullied.

You see, I endeavored to stand up for someone today, but I ended up being the victim.

Even after 20 years, I still don’t have a come-back to something like that. You’d think I’d been able to come up with something to say by now… A one-liner. A zinger to get this person to shut up & take notice!
«Mind your own business. You have no right to judge me. This is my life, my body & my decisions to make

I haven’t come up with anything yet. Know why? Because I don’t take responsibility for my life, my body or my decisions.

Dr Demartini said: «If you can’t love yourself for who you are and respect yourself for what you want in your life, how can you expect anyone else to do that?»


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  1. You may well wonder what actually hapened the other day when I wrote this, but the truth is, it’s not important. What is important is the message & the lesson I took away from it:
    It’s not always fun to hear the truth, but sometimes a blunt blow from a sledge hammer is exactly what you need to wake up to yourself. Don’t shoot the messenger (though I was sorely tempted), but take the message for what it is and turn it to your advantage.

    Paraphrasing Dr Demartini – again:
    You can see things ‘in the way’ or ‘on the way’ and you can see stumbeling blocks or stepping stones. You can choose to be a victim of your history or a master of your destiny – it’s up to you to change your perception of the world you live in.

    So. I intend to take the advise and act upon it. I will beigin my journy towards a healthy lifestyle by eating well, exercising regularly, and cutting back on alcohol. I may even throw in some meditation & breathing exercises, and a few remedial massages to get my circulation going.



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